What is real life? The definition is
Function: adjective: existing or occurring in reality : drawn from or drawing on actual events or situations
So real life would seem to be what is happening to you, what problems are affecting you, and who is affecting you.
How does it affect you?
It doesn't just affect you it is every thing that affects you. From your first kiss to a fire burning down your house. Some people think that real life is all drama and pain, not so, that is only half of what it is, it also includes picnics, good books, and good friends real life is just plain life.
And last of all why am I writing this?
Because my mom is making me.